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Tuesday, 10 November 2009
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Italian Living
Today in my 3rd year class we were reading about English houses. The text book described the 3 typical types: detached, semi-detached and terraced. The students were all horrified at the idea of a terraced house only having an outside loo and I had to explain that these days they’ve all been done up and that’s no longer true! Still, for the most part the text book is up to date and not too stereotypical, which I like! (My challenge for next week is going to be showing them some “typical” British food which doesn’t just consist of fish and chips and Roast Beef!).
Anyway, looking at houses and comparing the UK and Italy in class made me think about the differences. I don’t know whether it’s an overgeneralization to say that most people in Italy live in flats (forgive me if it is!), but from my experience most of them do. Even if the building is more like a house, it usually has one or two flats inside it (for example one of the families I worked for in Trento had what I would call a “house”, with a garden etc, but it was in fact only the ground floor of a building which had another family living in it, accessible from another side).Last week I went to teach a private lesson (with her son and his friends) in one of my teacher’s houses and the teacher told me that she has lived there since she was born. In that same house! Now her parents live on the ground floor (the original house), which is where she grew up, and they have built extensions on top of it so that they have a 2 floor flat above where she and her husband and 3 children live. So I met the whole family (was introduced to nonna etc). The same happened when I went to dinner at my tutor’s sister’s house last week. The sister lives with her family in the flat on the same floor as their parents, so the mamma/nonna was popping in and out of the house while we were there. My tutor lives in a flat about 2 minutes away.
Of course it’s a stereotype, that Italians live with their parents until middle age and never stray far from home, and in many cases it’s not like that at all (I know plenty of Italians who live miles away from “home” and family) but there do seem to be many cases like this. It’s such an alien idea to me, the idea of staying in the same house for your whole life. Imagine going home from work as a 45+ adult to the same street where you played as a child. I suppose it’s totally normal for them, and just a completely different way of life. For me, having lived in 9 houses in 5 different towns/cities (3 of which abroad, even if temporarily) since the age of 18, I just can’t imagine what it would be like!
My cold is a bit worse today and I completely lost my voice in my second class this morning, so I have had to say I can’t do my private lessons this afternoon, which is a shame. Still, I had my first lesson with 12 year old Claudia yesterday which went well. Next week one of her friends is joining which will mean I have 3 groups (2 x 12 year olds, 4 x 9 year olds and 5 x 11-14 year olds). Being kept busy!!
Sunday, 08 November 2009
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Well, I did feel oh so very much better after my rant on Friday! Sorry for those of you who had to read it! Generally the good experiences of living abroad definitely outweigh the bad, but sometimes it does cause these frustrations! Everything can be so much more complicated when you’re foreign – not just because of the language barrier, but just because so many systems just don’t seem to make sense. That said, there are plenty that seem to make a lot MORE sense than back home (like a sensible train system with clearly understandable fares based on distances and type of train, rather than, for example, being able to go from Taunton to London for anything between £15 and £400 on the same train, depending on when you book, how lucky you are etc etc...)
The good news is that it would seem that my internet banking is starting to work. I’m not holding out much hope for it actually being reliable, but at the moment it is showing my balance. It will be interesting to see how long it takes to show me that my pay has arrived (if it ever does, that is). I’m not looking forward very much to my trip to the school office tomorrow to try and a) get a receipt/payslip b) get a copy of the insurance they have taken out for me and c) explain to them that I really do need to get my pay a little bit earlier in future, i.e. on time.Then the bureaucracy will begin. Once I have a copy of the insurance, I am able to go and register with the local office. This has to be done within 3 months of arrival, if you are an EU citizen staying longer than 3 months. Once I have done that, then I am able to register with the local health service and choose a doctor. I never bothered with that in Trento, I only needed to see a doctor once (when I had an ear infection) and it was out of hours anyway, so I went to the guardia medica. It turns out there is, of course, one of those here too. When the foot saga happened in my first week, that was what I was asking Elena about, but she told me there wasn’t one and we’d have to go to pronto soccorso (A&E), which is what we did. Oh well, just goes to show that most of the time I’m better off finding things out myself!! I now have all the details, so that if I do get ill again and don’t have a doctor, I can actually go there! Here’s hoping that the cough/sore throat I have at the moment gets better not worse though!
Don't think being out in the rain today helped, but it was for a good cause. The Pope visited Brescia! I waited in the rain for him to arrive, along with the rest of Brescia. You had to have tickets to get in to Piazza Duomo, which from the live TV pictures was absolutely packed, but he did drive right past us in his so called "Papamobile"! So got a wave from him as he went past. Then stayed to watch a bit of the mass on the big screen, but it was so wet and cold that Kirsty (who is doing Erasmus in Brescia) and I went to have a cioccolata calda and warm up a bit! Unfortunately I started choking and had to scoot off to the supermarket to buy some honey and lemon to make the classic soothing drink...
The Papamobile with waving Pope going past in a whizzTomorrow I have 2 lessons and then my first private lesson with the solo 12 year old. I'm expecting this to be a bit more challenging than the group lessons, but we shall see how it goes! At least as I am losing my voice she'll have to do all the talking!! Same in my classes :P
A few pics of the scuola
The Front EntranceThe main classroom block where I teach all my lessons
The Staff RoomThe Sala Video where I did my Bonfire Night presentation 11 times...
Friday, 06 November 2009
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Bloody Italian school
So on Wednesday, one of my 4E class interrupted one of my lessons to ask if it would be okay for them to have some sort of meeting in the time I usually go to their lesson (Thurs at 8.50am) and for me to go the following day, at the SAME TIME. Ie. Friday at 8.50am. I was a bit annoyed as Friday is my day off, and it would mean coming in just for that one lesson. However, I couldn't really say no, so I agreed. I checked that the video room was booked for today too, and the student had done it, for 8.50am on Fri.
So, I turned up at 8.40am to set up my laptop (having lugged it in yet again). The room was in use, lights off etc. So I went to start setting my laptop up outside. Then the teacher came out and said "maybe they didn't tell you about the time...". Huh?! Yeah so basically the student got it wrong, and I was supposed to take the lesson at 7.55am instead! She was very apologetic that I had come in for nothing, as it was their fault, but really very annoying! Especially given that it's raining, and I woke up with a sore throat, runny nose etc today so obviously am starting a cold. Grrrr.
Annoyance number 2 is that they still haven't paid me. So in the "assistant's rights" thing, it says we have to be paid by the 5th of the month. Now that's BY the 5th, it doens't have to be ON the 5th, others have been paid a lot earlier. So anyway I had been to the office to check it would arrive by the 5th so I can pay my rent etc (bearing in mind that this is now 7 weeks I've been in Italy basically senza soldi). I checked at Barclays yesterday (oh and that's another rant, but I think this one is long enough for now!!) and it hadn't come in. Grrr. So Elena (my tutor) had said to me to let her know if it hadn't come on the 5th, because she would be very cross and go to the headmaster etc. So I emailed her to say that it hadn't been paid and that even if they have transferred it, it's supposed to ARRIVE with me on the 5th etc. She has just replied saying that she has checked and they've done it all, and to check again!! So I have to take their word for it, but have no idea when Barclays Italia (idiots) will put the money in my account. Grrrrrrr. Going to go there on the way home (well, out of my way on the way home) to see and to tell them that internet banking still isn't working and is therefore completely useless to me at the moment.Oh the frustrations!!!
While I am complaining... I have 2 Wind sim cards, one for my mobile and one for my internet. The internet one should have a round number of credit on it, but it doesn't. For no apparent reason, they have subtracted €3.94 from it. However, there is NO record of why they have done this in my detailed account statement. It says 0.00 spent on calls, in fact it says no calls made. It lists all the connections to the internet (which I pay for monthly) as 0.00. So WHY have I got less credit than I know I am supposed to have? This country......
So, just to add...going to Barclays Italia on a day which is already going extremely badly was never going to be a good idea. They tried to reactivate my internet banking again so that it actually works, but no joy. They are going to ring Milan to find out why. The helpline is based in Milan, and that was my first port of call as the branch had told me to ring them if any problems (this was about 2 weeks ago). When I rang them, their response was "you'll have to go to the branch". Ideal.
They also informed me that if the school paid me on the 5th, then it won't arrive until the 10th. My rent standing order leaves on the 10th. If the school give me something which says they have transferred the money on the 5th, then I won't go overdrawn, but if they don't (which I can't see them doing) then I will. Excellent.The only good thing that has happened today is that I left school at the same time as Luigina, one of the teachers I teach with, and she gave me a lift almost to home which saved waiting around in the rain for a bus!
Wednesday, 04 November 2009
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It's rainy again. We had a day off on Monday as they have a bank holiday for All Saints' Day in Italy. The weather was rubbish though, torrential rain all day, so I didn't actually leave the house!
I've just come in ready to set up my laptop in the video room for Day 2 of Bonfire Night presentation, only to find that my first class (8.50am) aren't coming in until 9.45am today, so I could have stayed in bed a bit longer! Basically the teacher is off and they hardly ever find substitute teachers, so what they do is let the students either come in later or go home early. 3C happen to have teachers off for both their first 2 lessons, so they are coming in late. Nice of them to tell me!! I guess the people who run this system don't know which lessons I teach along with the teacher, so they just think if the teacher isn't there then the pupils don't have to be either. Anyway, at least it gives me time to blog about yesterday. I expect I'll be asked to cover the class I take on alternate weeks with 3C, so I won't finish until 12.35 instead of 11.45. At least I've got the Bonfire Night presentation to do with any class, other weeks I might not have anything prepared for drop of a hat lessons.
So, yesterday I came in and the technicians helped me set up my laptop in the video room. I haven't got my camera with me or I could have uploaded the photos I took! Then I came down to the staffroom to check something, whereupon I was accosted by my tutor who was waving my term 1 plan and saying "I need part 2 of this". Part 2? "Yes, for the second semester". Errr, haven't done that yet! Seriously, they're lucky I've done one for the first semester - most people are just planning a week ahead!! She said she needed it by the 7th November, but then said "ok I'll just have to put "to be decided" then. Yes, good idea! I was slightly frustrated by this as it shows that basically from January it will be entirely up to me to plan all the lessons with no guidance on topics. This term I have been purely following the syllabus for their text book. Anyway, got a few weeks of this term left to worry about first!!
I only had 2 classes yesterday. The first, a 3rd year class, seemed to enjoy the Guy Fawkes lesson. I was presenting lots of pictures of Ottery St Mary and the Flaming Tar Barrels, and then also stuff about firework safety with them having to discuss various points at the end. The teacher was there and it was fine. With my 4th year class which came after, not so great... the teacher wasn't there, but it's quite a small class so I decided it would be fine to take it. They weren't really that interested though (well, more interested in talking to each other anyway) and I found myself slightly pleading with them to just please TRY and speak English in my lesson because they can speak Italian the rest of the day, the rest of the week etc. Some were trying, but others not. That's quite a weak class generally though so I wasn't hugely surprised! It did mean I left school a bit disheartened though, having put so much effort in to preparing the lesson, I hoped it would go down well, and that being in the video room would be a nice change for them! I'm sure today's classes will be a lot better, and then I have to do it 5 times in a row tomorrow!! I'll know a LOT about fireworks and Italian festivals by tomorrow...
In the afternoon I had my 2 private lessons. Quite a few of the children are ill (swine flu) which meant that I had 4 in my first group of 9 year olds and then only two in the second group. Still, I got €35 which is certainly a help, especially as I still haven't been paid by the school yet! Talked about Bonfire Night and Italian festivals with those too. Or at least did a wordsearch and word games about Bonfire Night with the little ones, and then chatted with the older ones! Enjoyed it again. The first group took place in Luigina's house this time (the mother of one of the 9 year olds) and then I had to move for the second hour. Then I was getting a lift to dinner at my tutor (Elena)'s sister's house...Slight interlude to say that Elena just came in and saw the notice about 3C not coming in until 9.45am, and started swearing at the noticeboard, before she saw me! She wasn't happy at all that they hadn't told e in advance, and says she's going to complain. Then another teacher asked if I wanted to go and do something with her class for 15 minutes, but I said I didn't have anything prepared except my presentation, so have escaped! Just hope they won't make me recuperate the hours later...
Anyway, so, dinner...
It was with Elena, her sister, her brother in law and her niece and nephew (I start doing conversation lessons with the niece, 12 year old, next week). Elena had told me they all live about "10 minutes walk" from her house, but it was about 10 minute walk the other side of the station, which takes me 15.... so I think I'll be finding another bus route for that!! Bit of a pain really. Anyway they might have lined up another person to have a separate lesson with the same time, so at least then I only make the journey once and earn twice as much!
Dinner itself was great. I spoke Italian solidly the whole evening, probably the most I have spoken since arriving! Was very good practice! Really enjoyed being out and getting to chat and meet different people. They have also found a choir that I can go to on Thurs night, only problem is it's near their house so far away, and the service is 9.30am on a Sunday so I'd have to lose my lie in!!! Think I'll have to go once but then maybe not again... we shall see, might meet some people there anyway!The other funny thing was that in the car we were discussing what I was doing next week, and apparently at school I'll be doing CLIL lessons, which means going to Law, History etc lessons normally taught in Italian, and doing them in English! Along with the Italian teacher! Could be interesting! The timetable changes too but now she knows I'm going to do this CELTA course in Verona she is going to leave Fridays free for me, so that's good that I mentioned it! She also said that if I wanted to stay in Italy then they could arrange with the ministry for me to stay for up to 3 years in their school because I'm reliable and the kids apparently all like my lessons! So that's encouraging.... just got to keep finding ideas! Not sure I would want to stay for that long though, but it's an option. Or they said there are plenty of schools who would employ me. At least I know there's a good reference in there :)
Sunday, 01 November 2009
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Yesterday I had a particularly exciting Saturday trip - GARDALAND!! This is "Italy's No 1 Amusement Park", situated (funnily enough) by Lake Garda. From Brescia it's about 25 minutes on the train to Peschiera del Garda, with a free shuttle bus from there. Brilliant!
I went with Elisa, who is also doing British Council not far from here, and her lovely little 4 year old Elliott.
Of course it was Halloween, so the park was completely done out for that. They'd put a real effort into it and it looked great, as did all the costumes lots of people were dressed in! Enjoyed going on lots of rides, and my highlight had to be the Colorado Boat log flume ride which we ended the day with (don't think Elliott would agree!!) - below, the picture from yesterday (which we just had to invest in) and for comparison's sake, the equivalent from Alton Towers about 15 years ago...spot the terrified child in each! (Second picture isn't that clear, but when up close you can see the look of fear!!!)
The whole day was a lot of fun, and also really enjoyed being able to swap British Council stories... always nice to chat to someone in the same boat as you!
Sunday
Was quite exhausted today so had quite a nice long lie in! I then decided on the spur of the moment to try and make risotto from scratch. My dear friend Emily is teaching me to cook, but from Bristol, so I'm sort of on a distance learning course! She's sending me recipes to try and then I do them. I've been waiting to do the risotto for ages, and finally got round to it. So glad I did, it was really fun!! It came out really well and I was very pleased to have made it completely by myself.
Forgetting it was Sunday, I then put some washing on. Doing washing on a Sunday is a big no no. The reason? The electricity goes off every single time I do it. Either it's because everyone is at home and using lots of power on Sundays, or there is limited power on Sundays, but anyway, if we have the boiler in the bathroom on, and computers/lights etc and then someone puts the washing machine on, it blows the fuse. It's always fine again if we just turn the bathroom boiler thing off, but it's a bit annoying! I'll try and remember not to do it again!
Think I'm ready for all my lessons next week as I am doing a presentation on Bonfire Night with all my classes. I'm going to use the same topic for my private lessons, but have yet to think of a way to present it to the younger kids...
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About Me
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I'm 24 years old and am about to embark on Italian adventure number 2. I will be an English Language Assistant with the British Council in Brescia, Italy from Sept 2009-June 2010. I previously spent 10 months in Trento doing Erasmus. I graduated in French and Italian in 2008.
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Things that I wish they had in Italy... (or just in my flat in Italy): Kettles, Toasters, Dairy Milk Proper tea bags, Microwaves etc
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exhausted after a long day! thank goodness for long weekend!
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